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A cuckold is a male who watches other men have sex with their girlfriends of wives. There are several variations on this practice. Men are interested in cuckolding for several reasons. If you’re curious about this, here are a few things that can help you decide if you want to try it or not.

Humiliation Games

While it may not be everyone’s cup of tea, some people are in to being humiliated. A cuckold situation is great for men who want some humiliation without pain. In these situations the man is forced to watch his female partner have sex with another man. Sometimes the other man will bark orders. In this situation the other man in the picture is referred to as a bull. This can be a huge turn on for a lot of guys.

Watching Her

In other cases humiliation has nothing to do with the turn on aspect. A lot of men love watching their girlfriends or wives get off and have a good time with another man. It can be the act of sharing something they know is great, or they just want to watch their wife get pleasured. In these circumstances it typically turns in to more of a threesome, but there are plenty of men at swingers clubs that are more than happy to step in and help you with this fantasy.

Appeal for Women

Men aren’t the only ones who enjoy this practice. Women can love watching their boyfriends or husbands faces as they are getting off with someone else. Having an audience can be sexy too.

Cuckolding is an activity that has been popular for many years. It’s becoming more popular in the swingers scene, and you can even find lots of porn on the subject. If you’re considering allowing yourself to be a cuckold, here are a few things to remember.

It’s A Fantasy

A cuckold can have a perfectly healthy and normal relationship outside of the swinger’s scene. The only difference is when the cuckold is at the swinger’s scene, there is a fantasy involved. Just because you’re being submissive at the club doesn’t mean you have to be when you leave.

Know the Expectations

Every cuckold situation will be different. Some women just want their submissive husband or boyfriend to watch as she has sex with other men. Others will want the husband to participate by taking orders from the alpha-male in the situation. And beyond that, some couples will want the cuckold to experience humiliation as part of the game. Before you decide you want to try a cuckold situation, make sure you and your partner are on the same page. This will avoid any embarrassment or awkwardness during the actual sex.

Set Rules

Just as with any aspect of swinging, rules and boundaries need to be discussed before any cuckold relationship blooms. If you just want to watch and don’t want to be ordered around, you need to be clear about this. Take a few minutes to actually talk about why you both want to do this. If you are in it for different reasons, you may have to come up with a new plan of attack. Understanding why each of you will be turned on will help determine what rules are most appropriate.